Final Forming of Character
Anne Frank
Saturday, July 15, 1944
I have one outstanding trait in my character, which must strike anyone who knows me for any length of time, and that is my knowledge of myself. I can watch myself and my actions, just like an outsider. The Anne of every day I can face entirely without prejudice, without making excuses for her, and watch what's good and what's bad about her. This "self-consciousness" haunts me, and every time I open my mouth I know as soon as I've spoken whether "that ought to have been different" or "that was right as it was." There are so many things about myself that I condemn; I couldn't begin to name them all.
I understand more and more how true Daddy's words were when he said: "All children must look after their own upbringing."
Parents can only give good advice or put them on the right paths, but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands.
Book Excerpt, p.39, 40
Character Is Destiny
The Value of Personal Ethics in Everyday Life
Russell W. Gough
